Marriage changed after first baby :( HELP?

My wife had the same problem with me being lazy, the reason why I was being lazy is mostly because she let me. She also had an emergency c-section which I think does mess with a woman and there apperance. You need to sit your husband down and explain to him that WE mad the baby not just you, and you can't take care of the baby and the house by yourself. Let him know that you are frustrated that he does not want to help. Maybe yall can make a schedule for doing chores and playing with your son. Another thing that helped me and my wife out was getting a break from the child and the two of you go out to the movies, dinner, ect. Good Luck